SEX OFFENDER
NOTIFICATION FACTS
- Sex offenders come from all walks of life and from all socio-economic
groups. They can be male or female, rich or poor, employed or unemployed, religious or
non-religious, highly educated or uneducated or from any race.
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- The suspect is known to the victim in over 80 percent of sex
crimes. In other words, the suspect is a parent, relative, caretaker, neighbor,
co-worker, or significant other.
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- Strangers can be "good guys" or "bad guys." (This
includes females.) Persons know to you or your children can be "good guys" or
"bad guys." (Again, this includes females.) We do a great disservice to children
when we teach Stranger Danger and leave it at that.
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- Sixty-seven percent of adults convicted of felony sex crimes in FY 1995
had no prior criminal history.
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- Many pedophiles seek out mothers of single parent families for the purpose of
victimizing their children. As an example, the following was taken directly from a sex
offender's treatment summary:
"During treatment..(Name)..disclosed that he has been sexually assaulting
children, males and females, since he was 8 or 9 years old. His victims range in age from
2 to 10 years old. He groomed his victims by keeping candy, popsicles, and children's toys
in his apartment. He raised birds to attract children; took children to the park, beach
and McDonald's; and used children he was babysitting to gain access to other victims. He
groomed the parents by offering free babysitting; helping out by providing transportation
and money "when they needed it." He disclosed he gains access by targeting
single parents with a large number of children who are not good housekeepers. In his
words, "a mother who doesn't give a damn."
- Most sex offenders "groom" their victims prior to any sexual abuse. As an
example, the following was taken directly from a sex offender's treatment summary:
"He played the part of (Name)'s best friend by being around her as much as
possible and telling her she could always come to him if she needed someone to talk to. He
helped (Name) do her homework and her household chores. He played games with (Name) and
took her to the park. Other places he took her were the malls, toy stores, clothing
stores, and swimming pools. He gave (Name) money and bought her things, such as new toys,
board games, a bike, and expensive clothing. When he was babysitting (Name), he would tell
her she could do anything she wanted. He told (Name) if she would let him do what he
wanted to her, he would buy her things. To keep her quiet, he told (Name) that if her
mother found out about what "we" were doing, she would be mad and it would be
all (Name)'s fault."
- AS OF DECEMBER 1996, THERE ARE 12,900 INMATES IN WISCONSIN STATE PRISONS;
2,800 OR 22 PERCENT ARE SEX OFFENDERS.
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- AS OF NOVEMBER 1996, THERE ARE 60,000 CLIENTS ON PROBATION OR PAROLE;
4,800 ARE SEX OFFENDERS. AS OF MARCH 1998 THERE ARE OVER 11,000 REGISTERED SEX OFFENDERS
IN THE STATE.
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- AS OF NOVEMBER 1999, THERE ARE 183 REGISTERED SEX OFFENDERS RESIDING
WITHIN KENOSHA COUNTY.
- OUT OF THE 183 SEX OFFENDERS REGISTERED IN KENOSHA, ALL WERE CONVICTED IN
KENOSHA.
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CHARACTERISTICS AND BEHAVIORAL INDICATORS OF A PEDOPHILE
- When most people imagine a child molester, they picture some ugly, old man in a
trench coat coaxing children to come to him in exchange for some candy. They don't picture
uncle Joe or aunt Lorraine, the neighbor next door, the friendly parishioner, another
family member, or trusted co-worker. They don't think of mom or dad, or in the case of
single parents, their significant other. This misconception has been effectively
dispelled through information obtained in thousands of child sexual abuse investigations
over the years. Child molesters come from all walks of life and from all
socioeconomic groups. They can be male or female, rich or poor, employed or
unemployed, religious or non-religious, or from any race.
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- Through numerous case studies, the Department of Justice has developed characteristics
and behavioral indicators of a pedophile. They are as follows:
- Is most often an adult male.
- Is usually married.
- Works in a wide range of occupations, from unskilled laborer to corporate executive.
- Relates better to children than adults.
- Socializes with few adults unless they are pedophiles.
- Usually prefers children in a specific age group.
- Usually prefers either males or females, but may be bi-sexual.
- May seek employment or volunteer with programs involving children of the age of his
preference.
- Pursues children for sexual purposes.
- Frequently photographs or collects photographs of his victims, either dressed, nude, or
in sexually explicit acts.
- Collects child erotica and child-adult pornography:
- To lower the inhibitions of victims.
- To fantasize when no potential victim is available.
- To relive his sexual activities.
- To justify his activities. (The depiction of others engaged in these acts legitimizes
them in the pedophile's mind.)
- To blackmail victims to keep them from telling.
- May possess and furnish narcotics to his victims to lower their inhibitions.
- Is usually intelligent enough to recognize that he has a personal problem and understand
the severity of it.
- May go to great lengths to conceal his illegal activity.
- Often rationalizes his illicit activities, emphasizing his positive impact upon the
victim and repressing feelings about the harm he has done.
- Often portrays the child as the aggressor. This usually occurs after the child realizes
that by withholding "sexual favors" the child will obtain what he or she
desires, such as new toys, clothing, or trips.
- Talks about children in the same manner as one would talk about an adult lover or
spouse.
- Often was a child molestation victim and frequently seeks out children at the age or
stage of physical development at which he was molested.
- Often seeks out publications and organizations that support his sexual beliefs and
practices.
- Usually corresponds with other pedophiles and exchanges child pornography and erotica as
proof of involvement.
- Is usually non-violent and has few problems with the law (pedophiles are frequently
respected community members).
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- The widespread misconception that child molestation consists solely of children
being seized from the street and forcibly molested couldn't be further from the truth.
Although these incidents do occur, the vast majority of child molesters are adults who
seduce children through subtle intimidation and persuasion and are known to the child.
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- The incestuous or interfamilial molester is usually an adult male (father,
stepfather, grandfather, or live-in boyfriend of the mother) who molests the female child
or children. Although physical abuse may occur, the molestation is usually secretive and
is accomplished through mental duress and threats - that the child would be removed from
the family if she did not succumb to his wishes, that she would be blamed for hurting the
family if the offender is arrested, or that a sibling would be sexually abused if the
victim did not consent. The molestation occurs over an extended period of time,
occasionally into the victim's adulthood. Through intimidation, the child is made to feel
responsible for the molestation and for keeping the acts secret. The secret is normally
kept between the offender and the victim, or within the immediate family.
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- The stranger molester will use force or fear to molest children. As the term
implies, the child does not know the molester. This type of molestation is usually
reported promptly to the police because the trauma to the child is readily apparent.
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- The single-parent family is particularly vulnerable to the pedophile. The parent
usually has a full-time job and is attempting to fulfill the role of both parents, as well
as run the household. In many cases, the parent is unable to provide the psychological
support the child needs. These situations may contribute to the success of the child
molester who can and will provide the caring attention, however superficial, that may be
lacking at home. Of course, domestic problems to intact families also can make children
vulnerable to the pedophile. It should be noted as well, many pedophiles seek out mothers
of single-parent families for the purpose of victimizing their children.
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- The single most effective means of protecting your child is communication with
your child. They have to feel comfortable discussing sensitive matters with you. If they
don't feel they can talk with you about their true feelings or that they will be "put
down" for it, then you can't expect they will tell you when they are put in an
uncomfortable situation by a child molester.
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- Teach your children that they should not be asked to touch anyone in the bathing suit
areas of their body or allow anyone to touch them in those areas. Teach them types of
situations to avoid. It's not good enough to tell a child to avoid strangers. Most
child molestation's are committed by someone known to or related to the child.
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- The Kenosha Police/Sheriff's Department handout "Personal Safety for
Children" and the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children pamphlet
"Child Protection," give you excellent examples of basic safety rules for
children. For a list of free child safety pamphlets, call the National Center for Missing
and Exploited Children toll free at 1-800-843-5678.
Sergeant John Morrissey of
Kenosha Police Department Crime Prevention Unit can be reached at 656-7333. For similar
information, contact the Kenosha County Sheriff's Department, Sergeant of Administration,
John Schwarz, at 605-5133.
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- Some of the material in this handout came from the law enforcement training manual
entitled "Child Abuse and Exploitation." This manual is put out by the U.S.
Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Office of Juvenile Justice and
Delinquency Prevention.
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